My eleven-year-old niece is obsessed with unicorns. For Christmas 2019, she gave me this:
I appreciated the thought – especially since I suspect this is one of those “I got you a thing based on how excited I would have been to get it” gifts, and my niece would have been very excited indeed to receive this calendar.
Also, I thought, I’m down for some glitter-pooping life wisdom.
It’s been a month, and while I am still pooping, there is…less glitter than one might think. Here are the unicorn’s greatest hits (and misses) for January.
When I first opened the calendar, my plan was to save the pages and give them to my niece. I don’t need the extra note paper, and I knew she’d get a kick out of seeing what the unicorn’s advice actually was.
That plan developed a crack on the very first day:
January 1: “How about you kick-off 2020, by getting over anything that held you back last year, you just don’t need that kind of baggage.”
Me: It’s not terrible advice. But getting over my instarage at the THREE punctuation errors in this sentence might be detrimental to my job. You know, because knowing how to use a comma isn’t exactly “baggage” for a writer.
Did I want to give my niece a calendar that nobody actually edited? I didn’t have enough data yet. I’d have to wait and see.
January 2: “Choose a mantra. Repeat it, daily, duh. My mantra is [fill in the blank].”
Me: Is this cultural appropriation? Wait, is this one of those magical entrapment type things? Is “Is this cultural appropriation?” my mantra now? Wait, should “Is this cultural appropriation?” be my mantra? Or is that too 2017?
I knew I didn’t want to have to explain to my niece what a mantra is. Maybe this plan wasn’t such a good one.
January 3: “Tribe, crew, squad, doesn’t matter what you call them, just make sure you have them.”
Me: “Is this cultural appropriation?” is definitely my mantra for 2020.
Also, yikes on handing this thing wholesale to my niece.
January 7: “Create practical steps to achieving your goals.”
Me: *rubs forehead* Look, if blogging has taught me anything over the past ten years, it’s that literally everyone know this is how you achieve a goal. What people don’t know is how to create those steps.
New Idea, thanks to a brief run of not completely terrible advice: Make a collage out of the not-completely-terrible advice pages and give that to my niece next Christmas.
January 10: “Tell the devil not today, bruh.”
Me: Does he listen if you call him “bruh”?
Also, am I going to get enough not-terrible advice out of this thing to fill a 16×20 canvas?
January 15: “Real recognizes real.”
Me: This isn’t advice.
I can’t make a collage out of the unicorn advice if the unicorn advice isn’t even advice, unicorn.
January 20: “Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’ – Martin Luther King Jr.”
Me: This one is actually not terrible. I would have chosen a different quote, though. Like “I must confess that over the past few years I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate.”
This one goes in the “save for niece” pile, though.
January 23: “You fine AF boo, own it.”
Me: This calendar feels like it was compiled by white Boomers attempting to sound relevant to Millennials because the people they think are Millennials are actually Gen Z, which isn’t even the generation that is Into unicorns right now.
Also, if this calendar keeps calling me “boo,” we’re going to have a problem.
January 27: “Cake may actually be a cure-all. Get you some, boo.”
Me: Did…did the unicorn just Marie Antoinette me?
January 28: “If it doesn’t come out in the wash, it comes out in the rinse.”
Me: WHAT DOES THIS EVEN MEAN. THIS IS JUST ADVICE FOR CHEAP HAIR DYE.
A month ago I was wondering how to explain the concept of a mantra to my niece. Seems like small potatoes compared to explaining…gaaah WHAT DOES IT EVEN MEAN
January 31: “One month down, how are those resolutions looking?”
Me: I haven’t actually murdered any unicorns for using comma splices yet, so that’s something.
I’ll also be getting my niece a Bundt cake.
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